The Mediation Agreement you will be asked to sign


This is an Agreement between

XX and YY

and Irwin Joseph, hereinafter "mediator," to enter into mediation with the intent of resolving all issues regarding: ZZZ. The parties and the mediator understand and agree as follows:

1. Nature of Mediation

The parties hereby appoint and retain Irwin Joseph as mediator for their negotiations. The parties understand that Irwin is a former Superior Court Commissioner (retired) and an active member of the California State Bar, but in this mediation will not serve as any party's nor all parties' legal counsel. He is unable to give any legal advice to any party. The parties understand that mediation is an agreement-reaching process in which the mediator assists parties to reach agreement in a collaborative, consensual and informed manner. It is understood that the mediator has no power to decide disputed issues for the parties unless separately agreed in writing by the parties. The parties understand that mediation is not a substitute for independent legal advice. The parties are encouraged to secure such advice throughout the mediation process and are strongly advised to obtain independent legal review of any mediated Stipulation, Agreement or Memorandum of Understanding (“Agreement”) before signing. The mediator (or the court) may require one or both parties to have their Agreement prepared in a more formal manner. The Agreement should be reviewed by legal counsel to ensure that party is reaching a reasonably informed Agreement. The parties also understand that the mediator has an obligation to work on behalf of all parties and that the mediator cannot render individual legal advice to any party and will not render therapy nor arbitrate within the mediation.

2. Scope of Mediation

The parties understand that it is for the parties, with the mediator's concurrence, to determine the scope of the mediation and this will be accomplished early in the mediation process.

By initialing here _______ _______ _______ _______ the parties specifically indicate their understanding that Irwin will not prepare any forms for filing with the court. It is the responsibility of the parties to have another person of their choice prepare any and all papers necessary to legally dissolve the marriage or enforce any terms of the Agreement. Irwin will not be preparing your final Marital Settlement Agreement—he will, however, provide you with a document that describes the basic terms of agreements reached in mediation (the Agreement) so those terms can be a part of the Marital Settlement Agreement filed with the court. The Agreement may be enforced by the court.

3. Mediation is Voluntary

All parties here state their good faith intention to complete their mediation by an agreement. It is, however, understood that any party withdraw from or suspend the mediation process at any time, for any reason or no reason.

The parties also understand that the mediator may suspend or terminate the mediation, if the mediator feels that the mediation will lead to an unreasonable result, if the mediator feels that an impasse has been reached, or if the mediator determines that he can no long effectively perform his facilitative role.

4. Confidentiality

It is understood between the parties and the mediator that the mediation will be strictly confidential. Mediation discussions, any draft resolutions and any unsigned, mediated Agreements shall not be admissible in any court, administrative or other contested proceeding. Only a mediated Agreement signed by all parties may be admissible. The parties further agree to not call the mediator to testify concerning the mediation nor to provide any materials from the mediation in any court or other contested proceeding between the parties. The mediation is considered by the parties and the mediator as settlement negotiations. All parties also understand and agree that the mediator may have private caucus meetings and discussions with any individual party. All discussions shall be confidential between the mediator and the caucusing party(ies), unless the parties agree otherwise.

5. Mediator Impartiality and Neutrality

The parties understand that the mediator must remain impartial throughout and after the mediation process. Thus, the mediator will not favor the interests of any party over another in the mediation nor in any court or other proceeding. The mediator is to be impartial as to party and neutral as to the results of the mediation. The mediator will seek to affirmatively reveal any operative biases and will disclose any and all prior contacts with the parties and their legal counsel.

6. Mediation Fees

The parties and the mediator agree that the fee for the mediator shall be $350 per hour for time spent with the parties and for time required to study documents, research issues, correspond, telephone, prepare draft and final Agreements and do such other things as may be reasonably necessary to facilitate the parties reaching full agreement. The mediator shall also be reimbursed for all expenses incurred as a part of the mediation process, such costs to be disclosed in advance. The mediator will not charge Administrative Fees or travel time or travel expense (mileage) to the South Bay.

Fees are payable at the time of the mediation, unless a Retainer is required. If a Retainer is required, a payment of $_________ toward the mediator's fees and expenses (Retainer) shall be paid to the mediator concurrent with or before signing this agreement. Any unearned amount of this retainer will be refunded to the parties promptly. During the course of the mediation, additional retainer sums may be assessed and the payment thereof shall be immediately due and payable. The parties shall be jointly and severally liable for unpaid mediator fees and expenses.

The parties have agreed to share the mediator fees as follows: _______

If requested, the parties will be provided with an accounting of time, fees and expenses by the mediator in the form of an invoice. Payment of any fees and expenses not covered by retainer is due to the mediator upon receipt of such billing, unless otherwise agreed in writing.

It is so agreed.

DATED:_______________, 2010

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